I realize I talk about change a lot. I think it may be because in my life right now I am going through a lot of changes. For as long as I can remember, I’ve had a boyfriend or seeking someone. I made the decision a few months ago that I would remain totally single and carefree for a long time.

So far I have being having the time of my life and loving my independence. It is still all very new to me. Its weird that when I come back home at night, I dont have someone to talk to until I fall asleep. I’m not saying I miss that or want that, its just not my normal. Nothing about this life is.

I am more in love with myself than ever. I don’t need or want a man to be the reason I feel good about myself. Since I have decided to be carefree, I am so much more fun. I’m more outgoing and can be pretty obnoxious, but I am enjoying every last second of it. The changes in my life have made me learn so much about myself. I want to feel this way about myself and life forever.



“Being single is getting over the illusion that there is somebody out there to complete you and taking charge of your own life” -Omkar Phatak

I found this quote when I recently became single. It pretty much summed up the reason I wanted to be single. I realized that I am the only person who can make me happy. I’m not planning my life around someone else. I’m planning my life for me. I don’t need or want someone to complete me, make me happy, or make me feel like something special. When I was younger, I always thought I’d settle down young. However now, I want to be single for quite a while. I don’t want someone to support me. I want to support myself. There is so much I want to do. There is so much I want to accomplish. I personally believe that will only happen if I’m single and living for myself only.