Take them as they are.

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People are who they are and they want what they want. The only person who can change a person is themselves. Once you realize that, everything is much easier. You’ll stop wasting your time trying to change people and their opinions. You’ll stop getting in their business and giving them advice they never asked for. You have your values and beliefs, what if a friend came into your life and tried to change them? You wouldn’t be very happy. Every person is unique. They are who they are for many reasons. Don’t try to change that. Take them for who they are, not who you think they are or who you want them to be. They aren’t those things anyways. Don’t expect them to change themselves for you or for anyone but themselves. Take people as they are, broken, raw, unique, and beautiful.

Adjustments

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First of all, today marks the end of the first month of my blog! I cannot believe its been a month already, thank you to all who read and all my followers!!

I’ve come to the realization lately that my brain and emotions are all over the place. I always have known this about myself, but since I’ve started writing out my thoughts, its really beginning to show even more. Tonight I’m feeling a little down. I’m pretty sick of people assuming things about me and constantly joking about things that happened in the past. They just don’t matter, move on. I’m sick of being the butt of every joke. My insecurities are running wild. Yesterday I felt great about myself and today just the opposite. I think I am still getting used to being single. I’ve got to realize that no, not every guy I think is cute is going to think I’m cute back. Its hard to except the fact that nobody wants you when you just came out of something where they were in love with you. I guess. I don’t really know. I think I’m being a hypocrite. It takes a lot for me to admit that. I don’t want a relationship but I want someone to want me, how is that fair? Its not. I guess it’d just be nice to know I caught someone’s eye. Especially if its not just with my body but with who I am. Its like that song “I want you to want me”.